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Post by Lady Smara on Jul 8, 2011 7:31:51 GMT -5
So.... Once again I'd like to apologize for past and any future attendance and posting that may be very sporadic.
Posting could increase as I have lost my job yesterday....
Then again
It could greatly decrease as my husband and I have basically declared that we were going to get a divorce yesterday.
Of course we are trying to work through it...
But you can Imagine the mess of emotions that we both are.
Thank you for your patience.
Lady Smara
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Post by HG on Jul 8, 2011 15:32:13 GMT -5
So sorry to hear that Smara. Hope things improve for you. Let me know if you need anything!
HG
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Post by Ise on Jul 8, 2011 17:27:07 GMT -5
Aww *hugs* sorry to hear that Smara, I hope things start to look up for you. And yea, if you need anything just ask
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Post by Lady Smara on Jul 13, 2011 6:40:47 GMT -5
Just checking in. I am still alive. Hopefully I'll be up to posting soon.
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Post by freya on Jul 14, 2011 18:41:24 GMT -5
my prayers are with you
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Post by Lady Smara on Jul 16, 2011 6:12:32 GMT -5
Thanks HG, Ise and Freya. I appreciate the support.
So my husband is going back to Arizona for work and I am remaining up here for a time. The plan is in a few months for me to follow him down. We were happier together down there than we are up here. We are hoping we can get that back. Steven flies out Friday 22. So I won't be posting until then. Again I sincerely apologize for my terrible delay. Don't worry, I should be able to get everything caught up by that Monday and hopefully we can get the board plots going too once I get my posting groove back on.
~~ Smara
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Post by Lady Smara on Aug 10, 2011 18:09:03 GMT -5
So... I was hoping that putting him back in Arizona would teach him how to smile again. Regretibly, we are still fighting and he has told me that I have two choices. Naturally I want a third choice and he told me that if I don't chose between the two choices it would either result in devorce or him committing suicide because he refuses to wait for more than a few weeks for me...
Needless to say, my posting has been greatly affected by this the past few days and I do not know how long this will continue.
So here is my notice for my sporadic attendance. I will do my best to keep up with Admin things, but I fear my personal threads are currently put on hold.
Sorry to everyone.
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Post by Ise on Aug 11, 2011 16:17:32 GMT -5
Smara real life is more important then a game and I'm sure everyone here knows that. If you need anything, even if it's just a sounding board to rant at, I'm sure we can help. I hope you're able to take care of all this icky stuff soon and that things start to go a little better for you
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Post by HG on Aug 12, 2011 6:56:49 GMT -5
As Ise said, we completely understand. Marriages are tough, especially when your partner is depressed. I hope things get better for you soon. Let me know if I can do anything to help. I'll be on AIM most of today and hopefully on and off throughout the weekend so if you need to vent I'm here.
*hugs*
"...it all turns out well."
"How will it?"
"I don't know, its a mystery."
~Shakespeare in Love
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Post by ♥Rizu-Chan♥ on Aug 12, 2011 9:12:46 GMT -5
I would suggest some form of counseling, especially with a psychologist. If he's depressed enough to contemplate suicide it might be more than you can handle just on your own. Maybe a certified third party can help you both find exactly what has him in such distress and dampened mood, and thus help you resolve this all and bring you back to the happier days. Like HG said, marriages are tough -- but hang in there.
My best wishes to you and him, and I hope everything gets resolved soon.
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